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If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:08 pm
by freepizza
and I ask a girl out with a text message, when she isnt available to pick up the phone, does that make me the lamest dude ever? Answer quick before I do it!

And I wont be able to call her today cause she gets home so late, and by tomorrow I will be over my emotional high.

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:18 pm
by Frank
Lamest would be to break up over a text message :P

Still wouldn't do it though, but maybe that's just the old fashioned me.

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:19 pm
by litlkeck
I voted that it was lame to do it. But, I'd do it anyways. I completely agree with Frank that it's not ideal. That being said, if you know you won't do it later. You should jump on it now, while you got that courage!

~Keck

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:43 pm
by Bafitis
This is the new day and age, asking out by Text Message is So-So, but I would think Acceptable... Don't break up with a Text Message though...

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:46 pm
by Frank
I just had a semi second thought. I guess it depends on what you actually say.

Flirting over text messages in an almost cocky way is usually a positive thing. I've had normally very straight girls turn strangely kinky over txt's. Probably has to do with not being in front of the person when you say whatever it is you send.

Flat out asking out though, I'm still not too sure.

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 8:51 pm
by freepizza
She ain't kinky, but she does love text messaging.

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:05 pm
by Frank
Don't know a girl under 25 who doesn't. Let's face it, it's the ultimate gossip tool.

Bottom line before time runs out; Like Keck said, if you don't plan on ever asking her out after tonight, might as well try it with the txt. Just pick your words carefully, because they will be interpreted carefully :P

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:07 pm
by freepizza
Damn damn damn! Why'd you have to go and say that hahah!

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:09 pm
by Frank
Haha sorry Freep!

You chose an anonymous communication tool, you have to deal with the lack of verbal language attached to it :wink:

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:10 pm
by freepizza
Aw hell, I did it :\

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:11 pm
by freepizza
and my cell phone told me my message was too long...


Aw crap! It only sent the first 160 characters
I have no idea where that was!

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:12 pm
by Frank
I hope they didn't cut the important part!

Ok now I'm just being mean.

Hope it works out man :D Let us know!

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 9:18 pm
by freepizza
I am so lame. Second message: Sorry my first message got cut off. To sum up, it was a very convincing argument on why we should go on a date. :D

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 06, 2008 • 10:07 pm
by Jen
No worries. Good on ya for doing it. Life is too short!

You are not lame!!!!
jen

Re: If I'm on an emotional high

Posted: November 07, 2008 • 12:37 am
by Fred Buer
You do have cojones though :D

-Fred